3. Feeling A Relationship Ending
3、觉得感情关系走到尽头
"When a woman feels that uneasy sense that a relationship is on the outs, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow," Lee reasons for a woman"s infidelity. "If she is the one considering the breakup, she may be using this tactic as a challenge to herself both testing the waters, and then gauge if she can go through with it."
“当一个女性觉得这段感情快要枯萎,不管是自己还是对方所致,她可能会向外寻求慰藉来填补目前的空虚,使自己不至于受到太严重的打击。”蕾妮在分析女性的背叛时,认为“如果她是那个想要分手的人,那她可能会用这种策略来挑战自己同时探探风头,然后寻思是否能这样做。”
4. It"s Just Not Fun Anymore
4、生活没有欢乐
...But it"s too hard to pull the plug. "When you don"t laugh, you don"t love. Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked," Lee explains, simply. "When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy. When they come across a coworker, or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon."
...但却很难停下来。“当你们之间没有了笑声,没有了爱……欢笑是一段关系中很重要的元素,但却经常被忽略。”蕾妮简单地解释道。“当紧张压抑成为每天的主旋律时,女方会觉得不开心。当她们遇到一位可以共度美好时光的同事或朋友时,她们会突然发现这正是目前的感情关系里所没有的,因而会甘愿冒险。”
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